
Written By: The "Hopeless Romantic"
Do you know what is important when it comes to keeping a woman happy? Here is my advice on relationships for men.
One of the most important tips that I can give you is pretty high on the list of what women look for in men and that is self-confidence. So if you want to keep her happy you got to be confident. A confident man is someone who projects strength and will not only make a woman feel comfortable but secure when she is in his presence. Additionally, this trait is so desired of women that it’s generally more sought after then physical looks. If you don’t believe me just see if you can prove me wrong when you go to your next sporting event. There must be some reason all of the unattractive men are with those gorgeous women.
The next thing I would say is that you should be willing to do the small things. It’s amazing how much pleasure women take in just the smallest of gestures. Men tend to feel that they need to wow a woman with the “grandiose” when women tend to take more pleasure in the little things. Things such as offering to make dinner for her from time to time. Or maybe doing the “wash” occasionally. Or better yet, one evening when she comes in tired from work take her by the hand and walk her over to the sofa, sit her down and simply remove her shoes and massage her feet. These gestures will say so much more than mere words or possibly those that are thought to be more “grand” in nature.
This ties into the next piece of advice on relationships: appreciate your woman. Men should absolutely never; I mean never take a woman for granted. Let your baby know as much as you feel necessary, that she is loved and highly valued.
My next bit of advice is pretty much common sense, but stop looking at other women when you are out with your lady. Although, very difficult for us men to do it is something that most women do not take too kindly to and so if you want to make sure she isn’t unhappy with you, you must exercise some self control. Women are not as secure as men and for such reasons they must feel that when in a room filled with other beautiful women, despite how she looks or are dressed you must make her feel that she is a “queen” among not necessarily all women, just those in that particular room. If you are admiring every other woman but her then she not only will be jealous and hurt but also feel devalued. It’s one thing to tell her from time to time that she is loved and valued but something completely different when she is convinced of the fact.
My next bit of advice is simply this. A happy woman is a woman with some laughter in her life. One of the things that I’ve noticed that woman like about me personally is my sense of humor. Women tend to like men who can make them laugh, so look to do just that. Remember, “Girls just wanna have fun”, so make her laugh and smile, it won’t necessarily mean that she is happy in general with the relationship, but it certain can’t hurt.

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